Tomorrow I give the rest of my fee to lawyer. I’m so scared. They have to do the 2nd means test also. We are barely making it by now and aren’t even paying the credit cards 😢 I feel like I failed my husband and family. I knew when we bought house, it was a mistake but we kept getting our bidded-it was during Covid. We rented for 8 years and every 2 years, no lie the owner sold the house. We’d have to find another home-close to the girls schools and have to put more money down. We are in Arizona and nothing is cheap. In fact our house is a cheaper house!! I have medical issues and autoimmunes and it exhausts me to no end. I feel like my husband hates me. He doesn’t understand how we got here?? We don’t vacation, we don’t buy fancy things. We haven’t gotten each other gifts in over 10 years. We only have one car payment and it’s a lease-that was big mistake. I guess I just need reassurance.
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