TL;DR: Bankruptcy was the best decision I’ve made in my adult life, and if you’re on the ropes about doing it, just do it. Get your life back.

**Background and timeline:**

I filed bankruptcy on 10/31/25 after going back and forth about it for months. I’m 28, had built my credit from the ground up and had an 800 score by the time I was 24. I was doing very well, until 2023. I got a bit carried away, moved my gf in with me and had to start taking a lot of expenses on. I lost self control with my high credit limits and lines on top of helping out family and myself.

By 2025, I was struggling hard. With my $600 car note, rent and extra bills on top of my credit card payments, every check of mine went directly to my cards. I had almost $80k in credit card debt, $47k in student loans, still owed $20k ish on my car and some little things here and there. Despite making $82k a year (over $100k after bonuses and payments throughout the year), I literally suffered. I wanted to pay all of them back but because my gf is in medical school and I pay everything at the moment, it was either pay them and be homeless or destroy my credit and be sued. I have never missed a payment on any of my debts either, but it was getting to the point where I was going to have to in order to survive. So, I spoke with my parents for advice. My dad co-signed on my car so I went to him before I did anything to get his opinion (plus I felt bad), and he was the one that recommended I filed before I said anything. Come to find out he filed too when I was younger (crazy that you never fully know your parents). He understood and didn’t judge me about it.

So with his blessing, I filed. Had my 341 on 11/26. Pretty straightforward and everything went smooth. They asked about my sneaker business but that’s about it. I reaffirmed my car because fortunately I can pay it comfortably and it’s my only transportation (owe 13k on it still, aggressively paying it off now). My discharge was set for 1/26/26 originally but was told it could be delayed by a month due to the government shutdown and our court being short staffed. Finally after waiting and checking PACER weekly, I got my order of discharge paper emailed last night. A big weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I felt a sign of relief the day I filed due to not having to pay my creditors anymore, but now I truly feel free. When I filed I had a 670 credit score, and when my bankruptcy hit my report, it dropped to about 530. It went up to 579, but as of yesterday it’s at 599. Now, I am looking to rebuild.

To those thinking about doing it, just do it. As someone with a ton of pride, it was hard for me to go in with this, but I don’t regret it one bit. This experience truly humbled me and taught me a lesson. Society puts this negative connotation on bankruptcy, but if the rich can do it millions of times and game the system, why can’t honest working people do it? Of course I hate losing my backup plan and the relationships I had with my creditors, but I’m glad that I was able to experience this and learn from it. Now I can move forward.

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